We are getting ready to observe Yom Kippur in a few days. Yom Kippur is the most intense day on the Jewish calendar. It is experienced variably depending on our emotional state and our mindset or perspective. I would like to share some analogies that might help us appreciate the various mindsets that shape our Yom Kippur experience. This list is by no means exclusive, nor will everyone share the feelings of each/any of these analogies. I am trying to get an experiential conversation going for us as we approach this holy and unique day.
· A bride on her wedding day. – Her heart overflows with love and fullness as she eagerly anticipates connecting with her soulmate, while nervously praying that everything will go well.
· A child who has been separated from his parents, now on a flight home. – He keenly awaits the feeling of his parents’ embrace, hoping that there will be no delays or travel mishaps.
· A defendant on the final day of the trial, knowing that his defense team presented masterful arguments in his favor. – He earnestly looks towards the judge’s positive verdict, with deep hope for a smooth process.
· An employee at the end of a strong promotion application process. – She excitedly waits for her employer’s decision to grant her a promotion, while humbly expecting that she will not encounter any obstacles.
· A friend who is reconciling with a previously estranged friend after many years. – She longingly anticipates reconnecting, while tinged with feelings of sadness over the lost years of detachment and worry on how that will affect the reconciliation.
· A commander of a military platoon on that last day of a battle facing a decisive victory. – He enthusiastically looks forward to the triumph of victory, while reflecting on how much the battle took from him and his soldiers.
· A cancer survivor on the day of her last appointment on which she will be declared cancer free. – She anxiously awaits the doctor pronouncing those fateful words, while thinking about the long journey behind her, and hoping and praying that it is behind her forever.
I welcome your feedback as well as your own feelings and analogies that you might contemplate that shape your Yom Kippur experience.
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Wishing each of you a meaningful Yom Kippur, filled with your prayers, hopes, and resolve for a better future. May we experience this individually and collectively, Amen.
Rabbi Mendel Rivkin